"Some of you have chosen a life that is much too busy with outside activities. Your home reflects the rat race with chaos and disorder! The root cause for many of us can be found at James 3:16 where it says, "For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there is disorder and every evil thing."
When "My Own Agenda" is first and foremost in my life above God's plan, which gives me the responsibility to keep my home clean and running efficiently, then that is selfish ambition. Any time this creeps into my life (usually brought on by selfishness or self-pity), then my life and my home are disorderly and evil runs rampant!"
This was better help than anyone telling me "It's OK, you'll get there some day, just keep picking at the chaos in your house, you're doing well...YOur young you have a lot of time." I need a good kick in the behind is what I need, and calling me selfish and jealous might just do it. We know God is a god of order and according to James 3:16 to him this is where disorder comes from, selfishness. I think that is true of my case. I probably have been quite selfish and even though it's not necessarily "voluntary", I think it is something I will be fighting for a long time and will definitely be a mater of prayer for me for a long time.
Erin also encourages making a flashcard box, some call it a Home Management in a Box. Although I already have a Home Management binder, I am still gonna try this method. In fact I started making my cards last night. I'm a very visual and tactile person and I'm hoping this will help me as it is small, colourful, very straightforward and tactile as I need to flip through the cards basically every time I'm done the previous card.
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